When you listen to sexy women get off on a bust a nut chatline, you definitely get aroused because of their moans and groans of pleasure. It’s perfectly normal, and it luckily happens to most guys!
References to the sensuality of the sounds that women make during sex have been found in erotica since this genre of literature exists. Even the Kamasutra, the ancient Indian Sanskrit text, teaches to the women how they should moan, imitating the voices of animals.
So, perhaps the way we get aroused when our phone sex buddy moans loudly on the other end of the chat line has to do with our primal instinct. It makes a guy think that the woman wants to be his own, and that he’s able to arouse her even if she doesn’t see him.
In the past, seems like the moans and groans of the woman were louder and more consistent when the man was considered “alpha”.
In a certain way, this can happen in our century too: if the girl considers the guy seductive and masculine, she may be induced to get more vocal to let him know that he’s arousing her.
However, there could be many other reasons for this incredible fascination of guys with the sounds that the girls make during sex (or during a steamy phone chat session!).
A man’s ego is always pampered by the thought that he is sexually pleasing his woman, even if it’s not happening physically, like when you’re talking dirty over the phone.
Of course she’s using her hand, or sex toys, because you’re not there. But the simple thought that it’s YOU that make her scream so loud with pleasure is very flattering!
After all, when having phone sex, you want to know that your partner is enjoying herself to the fullest, whether if she’s just a one-night-stand or a crush with whom you hope to build a relationship.
As men, we want to make sure at all times that she likes what we’re doing together. Over the phone, she has no means to let us know other than her sensual moans.